Calm?... What's that??
As a young single mother of 3 sons under the age of 6, I believed that calm was a luxury that I couldn't afford. I didn't have the privilege to let myself relax, I had to hold up the whole world, after all. Calm was simply not part of my life, and my whole system was on board with that belief, that my constant running, working, thinking, doing was okay, hell, I thought it was an asset. People would say, "I don't know how you do it!" and my response was always, "I don't have a
