Change is Hard, it's Also Inevitable - Change for the Better
I hear people say, “this is just who I am” or “I’m just not good at [insert whatever here]” as a way to explain why they don’t have what they want, or why they are unsuccessful in some way. The objective reality is that doesn’t mean you can’t change. We think that we are beholden to our habits, but that’s totally wrong. We can learn new information and make different decisions at any time. We think we don’t know how to change, that’s usually because we’re on auto-pilot, we’re